Cultivating a Life Online
I am a firm believer
that from time to time, we must allow ourselves a moment to conduct a form of
internal evaluation exercise, clarifying that the person or ‘avatar’ we develop
in social networks is really the person we want to be, and be seen as. The
first thing is to plan a series of goals or achievements that we must meet to
develop our purposes in the network. These purposes can be personal or
professional. Examples of these goals may include personal ambitions such as getting
a love interest towards the end of the year, ambitious pursuits like becoming
mayor of your city, or professional endeavours like presenting yourself as a
trustworthy seller more concerned about the welfare of clients than pure financial
gain.
As I wrote before, the
purposes are varied and we must bear in mind that when we have many goals or
objectives at the same time, one can play against the other. If I offer to be
aware of my clients 24 hours a day and resolve questions promptly, this alone
is very possible; however if I do not have an employee who can keep an eye on
things on my behalf then I may end up in a situation whereby I have no time to pursue
other goals like going on a date, and if I do find the time I’ll likely be
overly distracted by phone calls, messages and emails. Therefore, it is best to
start with small and practical goals, increasing the demands we place upon
ourselves little-by-little over time.
You cannot expect to
have twenty thousand followers in less than an hour if you have never created content,
much less if it is your first time posting on social networks. We establish our
place within these online networks in a gradual way, much as we do when getting
to know someone in any other walk of life; first we start making an impression
of ourselves, then a conversation, later a friendship and from that link a level
of trust is generated. In person it takes us years, even decades, to become
known as friends, professionals or a committed husband or wife. Even so there
are always surprises; imagine then what happens in the network that is a cold
and more technological medium where words, emoticons, and even photos and
videos play a part in crafting our online persona. So to begin this internal
evaluation exercise we should all try to do the following:
- Create a character profile (Avatar) in the same write psychological characteristics by which I want to be known.
- Be clear about the Avatar’s objectives in the network. Direct my publications towards the purpose to be achieved.
- This is the most important of all, read your posts from time to time and see if what you’re posting on the networks (call Facebook, Instagram, twitter, snapshot, etc.) corresponds to the profile you designed at the beginning.
Luis Del Prado - Contributor
Luis
is a scriptwriter, teacher and journalist for newspapers and magazines in Lima,
Peru.
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Cultivating a Life Online
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